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Dear
Ones,
It
is a hot Sunday afternoon here. I hope the cool
weather is not gone for too long. We just returned
from the Abram church. It is smaller than the Popesti
church where we usually go. Romi is visiting us
this weekend and we usually do not return to Popesti
for church when one of the orphans is with us.
Yesterday,
we had a very full day…more so for Fred. In the
morning he took Romi, Emese and Janos bike riding
in the FCE office parking lot. Eme and Janos are
7 and 8. They have been riding for about a year
now and can ride circles around Romi (who is 15).
Romi has never ridden a bike before, but he will
learn.
We
want Romi to learn to ride a bike because in September
he will move to the transit house in Marghita. All
the boys there know how to ride a bike. We hope
he will be allowed to go to school here in Marghita.
We heard some rumors that some of the children might
still have to go to Popesti to the special school.
I don’t know about the others, but Romi is very
intelligent. He is #1 in the 7th class
at the special school. I can’t imagine why he was
ever declared ‘handicapped.’ Things are so unfair
to the orphans here.
During
the bike riding session, I met with a volunteer
and her foster son. This boy is three and is already
very difficult. I am helping her with some parenting
strategies. Besides being abandoned, he has had
cancer and has been in the hospital a lot. After
this I worked on the computer in the FCE office.
Later,
we had a meeting with Brenda about volunteer team
issues. Then, Fred took Romi and Craciun to the
park to play Frisbee. We are trying to do more with
11 year-old Craciun as we may be the ones who escort
him for plastic surgery. His face is deformed because
of a terrible accident. We just discovered scars
on his head so I assume he had much abuse. He is
now at Casa Alba with toddlers and preschoolers…not
a good deal for him. He has problems with depression
and has even talked of ending his life. It is hard
to find a family for him here because of his disfigurement.
We are concerned about his future.
When
Romi and Fred came back we looked at photos on the
computer of the Colorado team’s weeks of camp. Romi
wants me to print out every other one. He is especially
interested in photos of family Dewey. Not just the
ones he knows but the whole family. Since we are
his bunic and bunica (grandparents) he is overjoyed
to have many matus and matusas (uncles and aunts).
He now has many cousins, too. Maybe someday some
of you can meet Romi! He is an amazing kid.
So,
there you have one of our days. Today will be a
little more restful. Soon, we will go to the volunteer
house for lunch. Then we will take naps while Romi
makes albums with his photos. Fred will probably
get Craciun from Casa Alba and go to the park.
This
week, before our visitors come Wednesday evening,
I must get my first two edited chapters off to my
editor. Several people here have read the first
chapter and really, really like it. Now, if I can
just do as well with the next six chapters. Most
are in the first draft stage. It is very difficult
to find blocks of time to write.
Off
to lunch!
Love,
Karleen
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