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Dear
Ones,
The tooth saga goes on. Sunday
evening we went to Debrecen , Hungary . It is just
across the Romanian border about an hour away. We
spent the night and called the dentist the first
thing in the morning. He did not answer his phone!
We tried every 30 minutes and no answer. We came
back to Marghita with no consultation on the tooth.
We will try again on Thursday.
Tomorrow is the big celebration
for the 10th anniversary of Casa Alba.
Seems just like yesterday that we moved about 15
or so little kids from that awful wing of the hospital.
I wasn’t sure Casa Alba would work, but it did.
We now have 17 toddlers and preschoolers, down from
a maximum of 25. Soon, some will go to foster families
and the numbers will be smaller.
Unfortunately, we have
seven babies in the hospital. Most are abandoned.
According to a recently enacted Romanian law, children
under two cannot go to institutions, so once again
babies languish in the hospital. It is good that
we have an employed caregiver and a volunteer with
the babies during most of the daytime hours.
My job in preparation
for the Casa Alba celebration was to find gifts
in the FCE depot (warehouse) for 36 kids. We have
all the gifts ready and packaged in nice cloth bags.
The finishing touches are being put on the Sports
Hall for the big gathering. Inger and her friend
are coming tonight from Sweden . We have worked
with Dr. Inger Bostrom for 16 years. Iorela Karlsson
and her adopted son, Gustav, will also be here.
Iorela was the first director of Casa Alba and served
for six years. Several other old time volunteers
have come for the big day. I will send you
pictures in another letter.
Today was a special day
as a new family was formed. We have found a good
home for Pamela. Today, Pamela signed the papers
that she wants to live with Alina and Ghita (Gheetza)
in Abram until she is grown. For the last month,
I have been working with Alina and Pamela in their
adjustment. This couple has no other children. But,
Alina’s mom died when she was very young, just like
Pamela’s mom. In the beginning, the placement was
very shaky, and I did not think it was going to
work out. This is Pamela’s fifth placement and she
is a very angry girl. She did not want to live in
a village because she thought it would be boring.
However, Cireasa and her three sisters live close
by, so Pamela has some girls to play with. We met
today at the family’s house. I spoke for a while
with Pamela about how she is feeling about her family.
Since she is over 12 she had to sign some official
documents, I explained those to her as did the social
assistant, and she willingly signed. Now they are
a family of three.
Fred and I are becoming
more involved in the leadership of FCE. For some
time there have been leadership positions that have
gone unfilled. We will accept those positions until
there are others who can replace us. Then, we will
gladly pass on the responsibilities to them. These
leadership roles are with the volunteers, child
sponsorship, and the ministry with the Popesti orphans.
I continue to meet with two volunteer foster parents
and their kids and we are available to advise Romanian
foster parents.
Soon, we will have five
retired persons here. Some have commented that the
older volunteers add stability and maturity to the
volunteer team. We are 32 volunteers now. And, we
also have what seems to be a steady stream of short-time
visitors.
Fred and I are trying
to find times when we can just relax, but there
is always some child on our minds. We are trying
to get medical care for a foster child who is losing
the pigmentation in some areas of her skin resulting
in several patches that are white. And, we
are looking for surgeons who can correct a 11 year-old
boy’s scarred smile, the result of a terrible accident.
The injury happened some time ago, but it is really
affecting this boy’s view of himself.
Recently, the days have
been a mix of rain and sunshine. We have enjoyed
the cooler weather, and we look forward to autumn
with its bright, crisp days.
All
for now.
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